I talk a lot about the good things in IMVU but what are the downsides? First and foremost, the biggest downside for many people is that it sucks up so much time. We all have seasons and things change, but Imvu is flexible and it’s never been better for me. I love my life and friends here but sometimes we have to do what we have to do, and real life sometimes does get in the way. ![]() I wanted to say it here so you knew it wasn’t just something I was telling you.ĭo NOT worry about me though, because I’m definitely NOT going anywhere. ![]() I wanted to tell you because if you don’t see me around as much and when I am, I’m not available as much, it’s honestly not because I don’t want to talk with you, but unfortunately I probably can’t. I may end up getting on later and having to head to bed at a more reasonable time. I’ll still try to be on most nights for a while but that’s mostly with family, because even if I have to play a lot less, I can’t live without my friends and family. I’ll try to continue to do some here or there but this is one of the things I’ve had to adjust. But in the mean time it’s not you, it’s me! I’ve already kind of slowed down on my posting for the past couple months. Hopefully by or a little after Christmas things will get a little easier. I’ve kind of dreaded and avoided the reality of the things coming up in real life for several months because I knew IMVU would have to go or suffer for a while. My time has already been getting shorter and shorter for the past month or two but I’ll be extremely busy with some pretty big work things in real life for the next month. Murphy’s Law, and Life both happen in here too.Īs I get ready for Thanksgiving I know we’re all real busy with the holidays, but I also have to apologize. Sometimes people have to leave quickly or have technical issues and you can’t get too frustrated at it. It happens sometimes to all of us, and you have to be able to roll with it a little bit. Share all of the ups and downs and it will be even more exciting in the end.ĭon’t worry, you’re not the only one that sometimes doesn’t end up getting all the excitement you were hoping for. Don’t seek out drama and issues but don’t avoid them either. The realness of the relationships also requires a lot of other types of connecting but that makes the passion even more powerful. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve declined invites saying I’m already talking to someone and they probably assume that it’s something sexy, and it’s not.Īt the same time though the UP times wouldn’t be as high up if we didn’t have “in between” things and times. Someone wrote a comment today that it’s all just sex! Sometimes I wish that were true. ![]() I don’t know when someone is coming home so I don’t do much and then kick myself afterwards when they’re gone all afternoon. I don’t show pictures or talk about how life gets in the way sometimes, but it does. You probably look at my website and my pictures and assume that it’s ALWAYS like that. We don’t see how real life, timing and technical issues gets in the way for other people too. We compare our down points to other people’s high points and don’t see the parts in between. In some ways I wish he had gone on here, but even here I think we all feel kind of like this sometimes, like everyone else is having way more fun than me. There was a stabbing and shooting spree recently in Santa Barbara California, where the perpetrator blamed everyone else having more fun (and sex) than him and it made me think about IMVU.
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